Monday of 4th week of Easter / 2021 April 26
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This is a gospel reading about the Good
Shepherd which continues and is continuing a theme from yesterday – the 4th
Sunday of Easter also known as Good Shepherd Sunday.
The Good
Shepherd is an ancient image and a consoling image of Jesus/God as someone
watching over us, not just to tell you or me what we are doing wrong, but also
to lead us in right / correct paths for our own well-being.
The Good
Shepherd Gospel is telling us about physical, mortal and life-threatening
danger and while we may – today - be
unlikely to face a wild beast or animal in the West Orange / Essex ecosystem,
there are other dangers.
There are
near occasions of sin, there are people who draw us into conflict, there are
people we may dislike yet we also try to love. There may be people whom we are
afraid of (fear) either because of something they do/say…or we fear not being
esteemed in the eyes of others. We may act or react in certain ways because we
are concerned about the actions towards us – by others.
In some
cases, these are rational fears. In some cases, they are not rational and even
a sign of our fragility, our brokenness and our sinfulness. We need a shepherd, Jesus the Good Shepherd.
How can we
survive?
[__02__] How does the Good Shepherd survive and
thrive?
Recently,
I saw a YouTube video on the internet, while browsing around the internet, when
I should have been working or doing something productive.
View this link to CBS News Video in Salt Lake City.
This
YouTube video was recorded with both the sights and sounds in Utah and it was
an encounter between a young man and a wild animal. This young man – Kyle
Burgess -- was not a shepherd out in the wilderness but rather a young man of
about 25 years old who was out for exercise, running, near his home near near
Salt Lake City, Utah.
It is
there that Kyle meets a mountain lion.
While
running on the trail, minding his own business (or so he thought), he crosses
paths with a few mountain lion cubs, i.e., very young mountain lions. The cubs
– being very young are scared and they run away.
But, the
mother of the cubs, the mother-mountain lion was not pleased, growling and
apparently ready to pounce to attack.
I’d like
to apply what Kyle – the young man on the trail was facing – and what he did as
an act of survival and what Jesus tells us in the Good Shepherd gospel.
[__03__] [VISIBILITY
AND VISION OF DANGER] 1st, the young man
recognized he was in mortal danger. But, he did not immediately go on the
defensive. That is, he does not present
himself to the animal as being on the defensive.
Jesus as the Good Shepherd and as the incarnation
of God, does not enter the world to be on the defensive.
Rather, he says, “whoever saves his life will lose it,
but whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.”
Jesus is
“so much” not on the defensive that he also gives up his life.
This is
not his “defense” but rather his “offering” or “offensive strategy.” There’s an
old saying in sports that that the best defense is a good offense …
Jesus
knows he’s going to be in danger …but this does not make him back down. He
acknowledges it.
[__04__] [VOICE
AND COMMUNICATION] 2nd ,
the young man in the video.
TANGENT:
oh, by the way, did I mention that Kyle recorded the whole encounter on his
smartphone video camera and microphone. That’s how he made the evening news in
Utah and got 186,000+ views on YouTube.
Spoiler
alert: Kyle escaped unharmed, uninjured.
Kyle uses
his voice. It’s important – as you may know – when encountering a wild animal
to make noises and growl back, in a sense you are keeping the communication
going – in an equal if not superior way – between you and the animal. Otherwise
the animal will attack, sensing your weakness.
Now, in a
real argument or adversarial conflict with another person, one real pitfall –
sometimes even between beloved spouses or family members or dear friends – is
that one may “shut down” or stop talking to the other.
And, while
in a real human-to-human encounter, it’s important to avoid sniping or
growling…there’s a sense in which we want to keep the conversation going in a
way that affirms who you are and who the other person is.
One thing
I recall Father Joe Petrillo teaching me early on was the importance of keeping
the conversation going and communication open when in conflict.
Use your
voice.
[__05__] [MAKE YOURSELF TALL. STAND UP] 3rd,
What also helped Kyle to survive in the wild
was that he stood tall, stood up, and made himself appear to be tall.
In an
argument or difficulty with others, it’s important to stand tall but without
belittling or diminishing the other person or insulting the other person.
Kyle – as
a the hiker/trail runner in Utah – stood tall, but he also knew that he could
not overpower the mountain lion.
We also
may fall into the trap of thinking we can overpower or overwhelm others. Jesus does not try to overpower us with the
Gospel. We are called to stand tall and take the high road with our values.
[__06__] [HOW TO AVOID TROUBLE TO BEGIN WITH]
4th ,
And, maybe
this is obvious but if Kyle had never crossed paths or caused the mountain lion
cubs (children) to be scared, he would not have been in trouble with the
mother/parent.
In an
argument or adversarial conflict, it’s good to be careful what we “go after” …
what we may “target” or focus on whether by outright choice or inadvertent
attentiveness.
Do we, for
example, “go after” or are we tempted the other person’s emotions or
feelings …or do we do something that
might harm or endanger what the other person holds as precious?
For
example, in conversations with parents here at Our Lady of Lourdes, I am grateful
to our Religious Education staff who try always to protect and out put our
children and their well-being first.
You also
would do the same. I know that this is the ethos for so many teachers and
coaches and those who care for young people.
That is, while
a child might require some extra help, discipline, correction, we try to do so
while not in any way making the child seem to be not in a safe place. And, we would not even want to give the
appearance of making the child unsafe.
In Kyle’s
case, he was in trouble not because he really endangered the cubs by his
actions, but he appeared to be doing so.
[__07__] [NEVER
TURN YOUR BACK] 5th, What helped Kyle to survive with the mountain
lion was that he did not try to turn and run away or turn his back. In fact, he
was able to create a diversion by throwing a stone/rock in the other direction
which caused a sound in other direction and caused the mountain lion to retreat
toward that sound.
Never turn
your back. Jesus does not turn his back on us.
[__08__] [REMEMBER]
6h, Kyle Burgess
videotaped his encounter with the mountain lion and made the evening news in
Salt Lake City.
I am not
saying you or I should videotape or record everything, but we are called to
remember and pray about our difficulties so that we may not be on the news, but
rather that the news – the Good News – may be upon us each day.
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