Wednesday, March 5, 2025

Ash Wednesday 2025

 [Version 03 Ash Wednesday Homily: Entering God’s Reward, English]

Do you belong to any rewards programs? Whether it’s a store like Staples or an airline like United, many of us are familiar with how these programs work. We sign up, make purchases, accumulate points, and eventually redeem them.

Recently, I went to Staples, the office supply store, knowing I had a Staples reward card. I made a purchase, and they told me I had $10 in rewards. Then I realized I hadn’t bought everything I needed, so I picked up another item for $17 and asked, “Can I use my reward points now?” The representative said, “Sorry, no, you have to wait until it processes in the system.”

Sometimes, you do not get your rewards right away. Our faith journey is similar. God’s rewards do not come instantly; they require patience, trust.

It is tempting to view Lent as a transaction: we give up something—chocolate, social media, or meat on Fridays—and in return, we celebrate with Easter feasts. But Jesus is not asking, “What’s in your wallet?” like a credit card company. He is asking, “What’s in your heart?”

One of the “rewards” of fasting, sacrifice, and prayer during Lent is discovering our true priorities. In moments of crisis, we can ask God: “Lord, show me what is most important.”

Worldly Rewards vs. God’s Rewards

This time of year is also “award season” in Hollywood—the Oscars, the Grammys, the Emmys. Many of us enjoy watching these ceremonies, not just for the glamour, but for the acceptance speeches. The best speeches are filled with humility and gratitude.

True love and faith are not transactional; they are transformative. Jesus tells us, “Love your enemies. Pray for those who persecute you.”

Structure of God’s Rewards Program: Declaration, Denial, Delight

Declaration   To join a rewards program, you must sign up. Similarly, we declare our faith publicly. Receiving ashes today is one way of saying, “I belong to God.”

Denial   Any rewards program involves sacrifice. If you want airline miles, you need to take multiple flights. Likewise, Lent calls us to deny ourselves. Jesus says, “If anyone wants to follow me, let him deny himself, take up his cross, and follow me.”

Delight   The true delight is not an earthly prize—it is aligning our hearts with God’s love. God loves the poor, the outcast, the broken. Do we love what He loves?

Unlike a retail store or airline rewards program, God’s program does not have a database where we can check our points. The true reward is a transformed heart and eternal life with Him.

The ashes we receive today remind us that earthly things pass away, but our souls are made for something greater.

So as we begin this Lenten season, let us embrace God’s invitation. Let us declare our faith, deny ourselves for the sake of the Gospel, and delight in what God delights in. The journey may require patience, but the ultimate reward is beyond anything we can imagine.


 


[Ver. 03 Ash Wednesday Homily: Entering God’s Reward, Spanish]

¿Pertenece a algún programa de recompensas? Ya sea en una tienda como Staples o en una aerolínea como United, muchos estamos familiarizados con cómo funcionan estos programas. Nos inscribimos, realizamos compras, acumulamos puntos y, eventualmente, los canjeamos por descuentos o beneficios.

Recientemente, fui a Staples con mi tarjeta de recompensas. Compré algo y me informaron que tenía $10 acumulados. Luego, me di cuenta de que me faltaba algo y compré otro artículo por $17. Pregunté si podía usar mis puntos, y el empleado respondió: “Lo siento, debe esperar hasta que el sistema lo procese.”

A veces, las recompensas no llegan de inmediato. Hay que esperar. De alguna manera, nuestra vida de fe es similar. Las recompensas de Dios no son automáticas; requieren fe, paciencia y confianza.

Es tentador ver la Cuaresma como una transacción: dejamos el chocolate, reducimos el uso de redes sociales o evitamos la carne los viernes, y a cambio celebramos en Pascua. Pero Jesús no nos pregunta: “¿Qué hay en tu billetera?” Nos pregunta: “¿Qué hay en tu corazón?”

Una de las “recompensas” del ayuno, el sacrificio y la oración en Cuaresma es descubrir nuestras verdaderas prioridades. En los momentos de crisis, podemos pedir a Dios: “Señor, muéstrame qué es lo más importante.”

En esta época también es la "temporada de premios" en Hollywood—los Oscar, los Grammy, los Emmy. A muchos nos gusta ver estas ceremonias, no solo por el glamour, sino también por los discursos. Los mejores están llenos de humildad y gratitud.

El verdadero amor y la verdadera fe no son transacciones; son transformaciones. Jesús nos dice: “Amen a sus enemigos. Oren por quienes los persiguen.”

La estructura del programa de recompensas de Dios: Declaración, negación y deleite

Declaración.  Para unirse a un programa de recompensas, hay que registrarse. De manera similar, declaramos nuestra fe públicamente. Recibir la ceniza hoy es una forma de decir: “Yo pertenezco a Dios.”

Negación Todo programa de recompensas requiere sacrificio. Para acumular millas, hay que viajar varias veces. De manera similar, la Cuaresma nos llama a negarnos a nosotros mismos. Jesús dice: “Si alguno quiere venir en pos de mí, niéguese a sí mismo, tome su cruz y sígame.”

Deleite  El verdadero gozo no es un premio terrenal—es alinear nuestro corazón con el amor de Dios. Dios ama a los pobres, a los marginados, a los quebrantados. ¿Amamos nosotros lo que Él ama?

A diferencia de los programas de recompensas comerciales, el programa de Dios no tiene una base de datos para consultar nuestros puntos. La verdadera recompensa es un corazón transformado y la vida eterna con Él.

Las cenizas que recibimos hoy nos recuerdan que lo terrenal es pasajero, pero nuestra alma está hecha para algo mayor.

Al comenzar esta Cuaresma, aceptemos la invitación de Dios. Declarémonos como sus hijos, neguémonos por el Evangelio y encontremos gozo en lo que Dios ama. La recompensa final es inimaginable. Amén.


Sunday, March 2, 2025

Annual Appeal 2025 (2025-03-02)

This is my homily/presentation March 2, 2025 to promote the Annual Appeal with the Archdiocese.

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If you would like to contribute, information is available in the pews. You can also contact me at

FatherJimFerry@lourdeswestorange.org

Or call (973) 325-0110

To donate online, visit rcan.org/sharing  

Annual Appeal March 2,  2025 /  8th Sunday   

[slide_00 Gospel]   One of my seminary professors once remarked that this passage from the Gospel must have come from St. Joseph and Jesus’s carpenter’s workshop. After all, it speaks of splinters and wood—things that carpenters would have encountered daily. We try to keep splinters out of our bodies, especially our eyes. A carpenter and a carpenter’s son would have understood not only the challenge of removing splinters but also the need for assistance to see clearly. Likewise, we need God’s grace to help us see clearly in our daily lives. 

 

[slide_01]   This Sunday, we are promoting the Annual Appeal. Coincidentally, I also want to clarify some terminology. The Annual Appeal focuses on our mission—the mission of charity that we undertake as Christians and Catholics. However, there is another collection that sounds similar, beginning with the letter "A as in alpha"—the Assessment Collection. This collection also involves financial support to the Archdiocese, but it serves a different purpose. 

The Assessment Collection covers maintenance expenses, which help sustain the Archdiocese. For example, part of our assessment funds the upkeep of the cathedral basilica in Newark and provides support for property management services. These services assist parishes like ours by ensuring that buildings are well maintained. Currently, as we prepare to lease our convent to a new tenant, a lawyer is drafting the lease for us. Thanks to the assessment funds, Our Lady of Lourdes Parish does not have to cover legal fees, as they are already accounted for in our contribution to the Archdiocese. 

On the other hand, the Annual Appeal is not about maintenance but about our mission. It supports charitable efforts that extend beyond our local parish. I want to thank you for your continued generosity and invite you to join me in supporting this year’s Annual Appeal. I have already made my contribution, and I encourage you to do the same. 

When we give regionally, we benefit locally. The Annual Appeal serves the Archdiocese of Newark, which includes Bergen, Hudson, Essex, and Union counties. But first, let me remind you why we give locally. 

[slide_02, why give locally / faith]

Why Give Locally?

Your parish contributions allow the Catholic faith to be passed on through the sacraments. Young people are baptized in Christ, prepared for penance, confession, confirmation, marriage, Holy Orders, and Anointing of the Sick. Your generosity helps cover the cost of religious education, which tuition fees alone cannot sustain. We are also blessed with many volunteers who give their time freely to support religious education at Our Lady of Lourdes. Thank you for your dedication—you are ensuring that the sacraments, worship, and education remain accessible to all. We never turn anyone away due to financial hardship. 

 

[slide_03]  Your local giving also supports the needy. Consider the example of Holy Week. On Holy Thursday, Jesus washed the feet of His disciples and told them to do the same for others—an act of humble service. Similarly, your Holy Thursday donations support the St. Vincent de Paul Society, which aids the poor in our community. At Christmas, your generosity provides for those in need through our Giving Tree project, ensuring that the most vulnerable receive assistance. 

 

[slide_04]    Why Give Regionally? 

The Annual Appeal extends our mission by funding seminary education and forming future priests, including those serving in our own parish. I myself was educated through the Annual Appeal—your generosity helped pay for my tuition at Immaculate Conception Seminary. Father Bob Susko, our weekend assistant, continues to work in administration there. 

 

Additionally, the Appeal funds campus ministry, supporting young Catholics at nine colleges within our Archdiocese. Before coming here, I served in campus ministry at Fairleigh Dickinson University. Thanks to your contributions, my ministry was provided at no cost to the university. Your support ensures that priests continue to serve students at Montclair State University, Rutgers-Newark, Kean University, and other campuses. Note that this funding does not extend to Seton Hall University, which has its own sources of support. Instead, these contributions sustain Newman Clubs and Catholic outreach at public and non-religious universities. 

 

The Appeal also provides for Masses for the disabled, ensuring that worship remains accessible to the hearing-impaired and others with special needs. It funds Catholic Charities, which offers food, shelter, job training, and educational programs for those in crisis. 

 

[slide_05]     How Does This Benefit Our Parish? 

You may be wondering: How does giving to the Annual Appeal benefit Our Lady of Lourdes? 

Because of your generosity, our parish has received over **$200,000** in grants and debt relief from the Archdiocese over the past ten years. This includes: 

 

- **$105,000 in direct grants** for building repairs 

- **$50,000 in assessment reductions** over the past two years 

- **$36,000 in additional assessment reductions** 

- **$66,000 in forgiveness of unpaid bills** to the Archdiocese 

That’s a total benefit of **$207,000** over the past decade. 

 

Additionally, **Catholic Charities rents our school building**, and their rent covers **50% of our parish budget**. The Mount Carmel Guild Academy, which operates in our school building, serves children on the autism spectrum and those with special learning needs. Your contribution, no matter the size, supports both our parish and the broader Church. 

 

[slide_06]      Our Goal for This Year 

Our **goal for this year’s Annual Appeal is $33,208**. By reaching this goal before **June 30**, our parish will receive **a $12,000 reduction** in assessment costs. This benefit is available to all parishes that meet their goal by June 30. 

If you would like to contribute, information is available in the pews. You can also contact me at

FatherJimFerry@lourdeswestorange.org

Or call (973) 325-0110

To donate online, visit rcan.org/sharing  

Thank you for your prayerful consideration and for supporting our parish. Together, we continue to build on over 110 years of faith and service at Our Lady of Lourdes.

[slide_07] Thank you for your prayerful consideration and generosity. Together, we continue to build on  110 years of faith and ensure Our Lady of Lourdes remains a thriving spiritual home for generations to come.

Our Lady of Lourdes,  Pray for Us !

Now, we will watch the official video from the Archdiocese. If you have any questions, please let me know. Thank you!