Sunday, November 24, 2019

Latneness & Mercy (2019-11-24, Christ the King)

2019 November 24 /  34th Sunday
●● 2 Samuel 5:1-3 ●●●  Psalm 122 ●●●  Colossians 1:12-20  ●●● + Luke 23:35-48 ●●
Title:   Lateness and Mercy.
[__00__]    Jesus Christ the King is the feast today and we begin with this reading from Samuel about David being made King of Israel.
          And, it was notable that when David was made King, he was not the likely choice. He was the youngest of all of the sons in the family. The prophet Samuel thought he was to select one of the older sons to be king, but nevertheless David is selected, is called.
          The last, youngest, latest to arrive became FIRST.
          As the eldest child in my family, I always thought that the “last’ and youngest children got more…had it easier…
          But, whether we are first or last, we may think we are not getting what we deserve. The good news is that the last can be first.

[__01__]   In the Gospel today, we see the virtue of being persistent and persevering, even when arriving late, even when delayed.
          Have you ever been noticed because  you were delayed, or late, fashionably or unfashionably late to an event or gathering?
          Our local NY philosopher-comedian Jerry Seinfeld depicted this in the humor one of the episodes of his 1990’s comedy – Seinfeld – in which the theme of lateness and the danger of lateness is portrayed in a house guest and visitor…
          The main characters Jerry and Elaine are both involved because the house guest is at Elaine’s home and he is a marathon runner from Trinidad & Tobago named Jean Paul who was in the Olympics and became famous for over-sleeping and missing his event, the  Olympic marathon. Elaine tells Jerry about it, and Jerry meets Jean Paul. Jean Paul reveals that in his room – at the Olympics --  there were separate knobs for the alarm  volume and the radio volume and that he neglected to - before he went to bed - to turn up the volume for the alarm. Thus he overslept and missed the race.
          Thus a theme of the episode is how to get to NYC Marathon on time..that’s what the show is about. “Jean Paul” does not want to be late again. Being late has been his downfall…he does not want to repeat the experience.

[__02__]   This is the Sunday of Christ the King and we read about the thief on the cross who says, “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.”
          Jesus, remember me.
          One way that we can be remembered – or memorable – is when we show up late.  In the fictional Seinfeld example, the marathoner Jean Paul cannot escape the infamy of his lateness. He was always trying to overcome it.   It’s not really clear whether his new friends are helping him.
          Is the “last” or latest going to be first? Lateness can be good news.
          According to Gospel/Christian value, yes, this is possible and there is no one later …more delayed in repentance than the thief on cross at Calvary.
          On Good Friday, he made a dramatic entrance at the 11th hour, as we say.  “Jesus remember me when you come into your kingdom.”
          Is he any different, however, from the characters in another example, those in the parable of the workers in the vineyard, the late-arriving workers who are paid a full-day’s wage..and this really annoys the workers who had worked all day? Imagine…the late arrivals receive the same as the early arrivals.
          Lateness is not always bad news.
          The theme of the Seinfeld episode is that there is always one more human intervention in terms of a better alarm clock, a better hotel room, a better reminder system that can prevent lateness. And that summarizes our scientific everyday world view. Are you late? Then, turn up the volume.
          Jesus, however, is saying that being late is not necessarily our downfall … it all depends on what we do when we arrive.
          There is also the famous quote by comedian Woody Allen: “80 % of success is just showing up.”
          At least the good thief shows up. That’s more than we can say for 11 of the 12 apostles for whom the crucifixion was not a Must-See-TV experience for them and they scattered and went into hiding. They did not want to be there, to see or be seen

[__03__]      Am I present when I show up?
          I’d like to share an example which shows that – at least in my case – showing up involves not just a willingness to be appear and to be seen … but really to be known by the other.
          The good thief wants to be known.  Regarding myself, I am not so sure.
          A few months ago, I arrived at a gathering in which several people were seated in a circle, everyone was listening, taking notes, writing stuff down… band I arrived about 15 minutes after the start. I was uncomfortable about my lateness, but everyone was quite welcoming and understanding.
          I was handed some papers and I sat down then realizing that I had no pen, no blue ink, no black ink, nothing to write with. Someone kindly offered me a pen with black ink which I immediately refused. Why? Because of course I did not want anyone to know that I was not only late but also unprepared.
          Therefore, for me…  “Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom.”
          While it is true that lack of punctuality once in a while is not the greatest of all offenses against God and neighbor, I was aware that my lateness and my inability to acknowledge it and then take the help that was offered…well… my faults were in high-def / HDTV for all to see.  But that’s good news. Then, I could be aware of my need for re-charge of mercy and the energy of grace.

[__04__]     [*** pause ***
          It is the role of the Church and disciples within the Church …you and me…and me in my role as a priest to teach others about God’s mercy.
          The priest is present – I am called to be present to you – in this journey of the road to conversion. 
          In this regard, yes there is a “Saturday afternoon” schedule for confessions, but it’s also true that a priest – myself included – does nothing more important – around the clock, anytime, anywhere than to hear confessions and to celebrate God’s mercy.    
          This is not because the priest is a perfect model of virtue.
          When he celebrates… ……  CCC 1465  ---1465 When he celebrates the sacrament of Penance, the priest is fulfilling the ministry of the Good Shepherd who seeks the lost sheep, of the Good Samaritan who binds up wounds, of the Father who awaits the prodigal son and welcomes him on his return, and of the just and impartial judge whose judgment is both just and merciful. The priest is the sign and the instrument of God's merciful love for the sinner.
[__05__]    Another experience of lateness, delay, running late…
          And a priest’s role in doing so, for me.
          It was a significant experience for me with a parish priest of my youth, when I was a teenager.
          So, there was this Catholic youth group, we had a leader/chaplain who was named Father Anthony and we took a trip to an amusement theme park near what is now Mountain Creek Ski Area in Sussex County, New Jersey.  We were not skiing..we there in summer for the rides at what was called Vernon Valley Action Park. I am dating myself by even mentioning this long-since-closed place.
          Anyway, it was a one-day trip, for which we arrived around 9 am at the park and were supposed to be back for the bus at 4 pm. I was part of a group who decided it was way too restrictive to observe such a rule so we stayed in the park for an extra 45 to 60 minutes.  Maybe no one was was going to be on time and we were having a good time, a passive-aggressive good time.
          The bus left without us, but there was one parent – a mother – who had driven had an 1980ish station wagon and she drove us home in the station wagon.   We were told that our leader – Father Anthony – was quite displeased and upset. Being late was NOT GOOD NEWS at that moment.
          And, when we arrived back, Father Anthony told us of the danger and difficulty which we had caused.  I got the message. I also sensed in him a concern that was truly fatherly for our welfare, a father who wanted to level with us…while also trying to move on and move forward.
[__06__]      A few months later, there was a parish youth retreat at which one us happened to reflect on the summertime experience at the park and the peer pressure and “herd mentality” that took over and led to our going astray and being 45 minutes late.
          Hey…it took us a few months to figure it out… sometimes it takes a few months to know what you did wrong and put it out there. But it’s never too late.
          And, while this admission of guilt was more of a public witnessing than a private-confessing, I could see that Father Anthony’s role was similar in that he rejoiced at the conversion experience, the realization …and rejoiced in a way that a mother or father or parent would also rejoice when one his or her children “gets it” or gets with the program, however long that might take. It is worth the wait, worth the wait ..of waiting for Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross, worth waiting for his mercy.

          Jesus remember me when you come into your kingdom.

 [__fin__]


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