Sunday, February 2, 2020

A Normal Life / Kobe Bryant (2020-02-02, Presentation of the Lord)

2020 February 2 _ Presentation _ 
Malachi 3:1-4   • Psalm 24 • Hebrews 2:14-18  •   + Luke 2:22-40

[__01__]       There was a reason why my father – when I was a child -- took me to a church prayer-breakfast. But it was not because of the breakfast. However, … breakfast was enjoyable. I never forget a good meal.
            We went to the breakfast because there was a visiting speaker, a New York Yankees retired baseball player speaking. His name was Bobby Richardson. He played for the Yankees in the ‘50’s and ‘60’s.
            And, he spoke at the microphone. He talked about God, about his Christian faith, his spiritual life encouraging us. I had never heard anyone talk like this who was not a Sister of Charity or a priest. He was a “normal” person. Maybe you think I am normal, maybe you don’t think I’m normal. In any case, he was what we call “normal”.
             We went because Bobby Richardson was the speaker. When my father was in high school, he was a bat boy / ball boy for the New York Yankee at Yankee Stadium in the Bronx. It was the best summer job you could have and he got out of school early to go and be there in time for home games.
            My father was pretty much the lowest of the low on the Yankee totem pole. But, he did – as a ballboy – warm up the outfielders by playing catch between innings.  He was in the dugout. He was on the team plane for a couple of road trips, was at the World Series.  But all of that happened well before I was born.
            Now, there at the church breakfast. And when he saw my father he said, “I know you…I know you from somewhere.”

[__02__]                   I told my Dad that I was impressed that Bobby Richardson remembered him, years later. My father pointed out that Richardson was one of the really kind and humble players on the team, someone who talked to and would remember a lowly batboy.
            I read somewhere that Derek Jeter also was known to talk to batboys and relate well to “normal” people.
            This recognition by Richardson of “I know you from somewhere” was also an indication to me that my father had a life, an existence, identity apart from being my father.
            This separate identity is hard to imagine for a child, it may even be hard to imagine for an adult thinking about our own parents, that they had a life before they became Mom or Dad.
            That they had a “normal life” or…what I’d like to describe as a “hidden life.”

[__03__]      In the Gospel this Sunday, we read about the Presentation of Jesus at the Temple. And, this is beginning of the hidden life of our Savior. It’s a public moment when Jesus is presented to Simeon and Anna at the Temple, for this ritual purification, this prayer. For a child, this is done 40 days after birth, and today – February 2nd – is 40 days since December 25th.
            We witness this hidden life of Jesus in the Temple,, that only a few people see – Simeon and Anna …this hidden moment is now revealed later to many in the Gospel.
            And, Jesus has a longer hidden life from the time of his infancy and until age 30 when his public ministry starts – and he does the things we are familiar with – walking on water, multiplying the loaves, parables, miracles, suffering, death and resurrection.
            Jesus’ hidden life is also important for us. All of us have a “hidden life”. This is normal.
            St. Paul wrote:  “Your life is hidden with Christ in God.”
And, here I do not mean that we have a shameful dark side that we are trying to hide from the paparazzi / cameras and reporters. Rather, we all have a life of the soul and we are trying to understand our own thoughts, our own intentions, our own consciences. Our own journey. It may take our entir lives to understand another person, even to understand ourselves.
Socrates – the Greek philosopher in the writings of Plato – is expressed this way that it is important to examine our lives.
            Socrates, the Greek philosopher is quoted as saying that the “unexamined life is not worth living.”
            So, we are call called to examine our lives. That’s normal.  A normal life.
            And, to experience conversion and change in our lives. That’s normal.
           
[__04__]        It seems only possible discuss the life and legacy of Los Angeles Lakers’ player Kobe Bryant if we talk about what he did off the court, as well as what he did on the basketball court .
            Last Sunday, the big news – and the big news all week – was that 9 souls – 8 members of a Los Angeles basketball team community together with their helicopter pilot – 9 souls in all – lost their lives in a tragic helicopter accident in Los Angeles.
            All 9 of them need our prayers for their eternal rest; all 9 have a hidden interior life with God.
            Kobe Bryant, L.A. Lakers legend – together with his daughter, Gianna, was among them.
            Kobe is remembered as a start. Some people remember him as a very arrogant young 18-year old NBA player who came straight of high school the pro’s and did not pass the basketball enough and was always shooting when he should have been passing and how he evolved…to a more supportive team player and along the way won many
awards, All-Star and MVP, NBA Finals…
            But, was that the normal life of Kobe? The All-Star, NBA….
            That’s really we call “normal”
            What people have been reflecting on … whatever made Kobe heroic, or contributed a sense of humility or holiness, or enabled him to be husband father, all that took place away from the basketball court.
            It took place in church, in his home with his mother and father, in his home trying to love his wife and daughters and care for them.
Yes, Kobe Bryant was a superstar, wealthy, had certain advantages, but he also experienced a moment of scandal, a moment of infidelity for he himself was responsible.
He was called to be transformed.
And, all of us in some way are called to be changed, to be transformed, to move – in our lives from:
► infidelity to fidelity
► pride or arrogance to humility.
►fear to courage
All of us are called to be transformed away from our fears. That’s normal.
All of us are called to repent of our sins. That’s normal too.
It’s normal to receive God’s grace and forgiveness, to struggle and then move forward. That’s a normal Christian life.
And, then to share that by our own efforts to forgive others.
That’s normal.

[__05__]         Another element that could have contributed to Kobe’s transformation was the fact that while he was a basketball player and the say in the sports business that he was “owned” by the Lakers,  and could be traded, or cut.
            Did Kobe think that he was just owned that he was an object?  But, certainly in his moment of infidelity, treated someone else as an object. That’s not normal, we are all called to repent away from that.
            God wants us to know that you, that I, that every one has an inner, hidden, intrinsic value and dignity.
            Jesus reminds us this in John 15:15.   Even God who created us does not  “use” us as his handiwork, but encourages us as his children or Jesus says: “I will not now call you servants, for the servant knoweth not what his lord doth. But have called you friends, because all things, whatsoever I have heard of my Father, I have made known to you.“  (John 15:15)
And, to those to whom much is given much will be expected.
            That’s not the equality or enforcement of Title IX or the government law of equality, that’s the Gospel. That’s normal …
            In the playing field, we see as  Pope Emeritus Benedict XVI wrote that “in a time when exemplary personalities [who the young person respects is] lacking, the champion athlete indirectly becomes an “educator” for the young people look to them for guidance.”  (Author: Bishop Josef Clemens, “Sporting Activity in the thought of J. Ratzinger/Benedict XVI”, p. 5)
            In sports, we see the balance between freedom and discipline and between what is the immediate and long term goal, between the individual the community and team…  what really matters, what was summarized well by St. Paul in 1st Corinthians:
            “Do you not know that the runners in the stadium all run in the race, but only one wins the prize? Run so as to win.  Every athlete exercises discipline in every way. They do it in order to win an imperishable crown, but we an imperishable one. ”  (1 Corinthians 9:24-25)  
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