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Homily, Novena – March 11,
2024 ●● 2024 March 11
●● Monday of 4th week
of Lent Readings: ● ● + John 4:43-54 ● ●
[__01__] In the Gospel
episode of this journey of Jesus (John 4:43-54), we receive a glimpse into the
Lord’s vision/attitude at a time of crisis, when someone is in need.
Jesus’
words – at face value – suggest that he is not very concerned about the well
being of the man’s son.
Jesus
seems – on one level – annoyed that he is being asked for yet another miracle
and replies not to the person individually but to persons in general by whom he
is asked for favors.
Jesus replied,
“Unless you people see signs and wonders, you do not believe.” (John 4:___)
[__02__] It was not
very long ago, about 5 years ago, that I successfully figured out for the very
first time, how to take action – on my own – in the event of a flat tire on my
car..
Up
to this point, I would call for roadside assistance, triple A.
I
felt proud – perhaps too much so – that I figured this out.
Nevertheless,
I cannot solve every problem on my own. Recently, I had a crack in my
windshield. That required way more
expertise and intervention than I could offer. I needed, for this, to bring the
car in. It could not even be done “roadside”
[__03__] There is a
man in the Gospel who approaches Jesus and who is calling for “roadside
assistance”, meaning he is out on the road flagging down our Savior. His car is
not in trouble. It’s more serious. His son is very ill and he wants the Lord to
make a house call.
[__04__] Jesus
seems to resist the request, but he also knows the man needs help. It seems that the Lord does not want to prove
himself with every successive miracle.
[__05__] In order for me to live in Christ with faith,
integrity, joy, I am not saying – as the song goes – all I want is a miracle….
But I do live in faith much more readily when things are going my way.
Been
there? Done that?
[__06__] This instance in John chapter 4 is similar, a
parallel, to Jesus’ behavior at another health-crisis moment, that of the dying
Lazarus who is miles and kilometers away. When the news goes out, everyone is
losing his or cool. The disciples want to make the journey right away. Let’s
deliver roadside assistance! Meanwhile,
Jesus presses PAUSE and shows up 2 days later. During this delay, Lazarus has
died and is already buried.
Then,
as we know, Jesus raises Lazarus from the tomb in spectacular fashion.
Question:
Why the delay?
Answer:
Jesus used the raising of Lazarus and this event in John chapter 4 to prepare
the world for what was to come, his own death and resurrection which – by the
way – was not understood or communicated by everyone or to everyone right away.
This
“delay” and variation in comprehension was seen on the road to Emmaus (Luke 24)
[__07__] The Road to Emmaus (Luke 24) Soon after Jesus’
passion, death and resurrection, there was an episode in which 2 disciples are
leaving Jerusalem after Jesus’ death, going to Emmaus and discussing what had
just happened. To these 2 disciples
appears a 3rd mysterious traveler. It’s Jesus but they do not
recognize him. Jesus asks them, “what
happened in Jerusalem?” They reply incredulously because they cannot believe
anyone would be unaware and they say, “Are you the only traveler to Jerusalem
who does not know what happened there in these past few days?“ (Luke 24).
This
is an ironic question because Jesus is – in fact – the only one who does know what
really happened!
[__08__] A couple
of years ago, my friend’s elderly father – Robert - passed away after a long
illness. Robert an was also a father figure and friend to me whom I have known
since high school.
I
was honored to be at Robert’s funeral and burial which reminded me of a family
tragedy in his life when were all much younger. It was 1982 and Robert’s daughter
had just died as the result of a sudden accident on the road on their
neighborhood.
The
moment stands out to me as one of the first times I attended a funeral not only
because my parents had a connection, but I did as well.
I still remember how they were dressed. It was also
a very hot summer day, but the temperature was not really the problem.
Remembering
all of this, at Robert’s funeral, and many events since 1982 to the present, I
could see how many of their choices were shaped by the death of a child. I
think they made good choices as a result. But, they did not make easy choices.
Certainly, their faith also sustained them.
We do
not fully understand our lives or the lives or the lives of others as they are
happening. We can understand some things and thus we really need the silence of
prayer and meditation.
But,
we may only understand certain things at the end, after someone dies or when we
face our own deaths and mortal nature.
St.
Paul writes in 1st Corinthians, comparing our current “vision” on
earth to our future vision in heaven:
“For we know
partially and we prophesy partially, but when the perfect comes, the partial
will pass away. When I was a child, I
used to talk as a child, think as a child, reason as a child; when I became a
man, I put aside childish things. At
present we see indistinctly, as in a mirror, but then face to face. At present
I know partially; then I shall know fully, as I am fully known. So faith, hope, love remain, these three; but
the greatest of these is love.” (1
Corinthians 13:9-13)
[PAUSE]
[__09__] St. Joseph
is known as the patron saint of the dying and the patron saint of a happy
death.
None of us knows
the “when” r the “where” of our death. Yet, the mortality rate is hovering
around 100%
The Church invites
you and me to prepare for our deaths, even to the prepare for the next Funeral
we will attend.
It is good and
salutary for us to attend the wake and funeral for loved ones, not just for our
most intimate family and friends but also for neighbors, for extended family,
for classmates.
Is it not good for
us to reminded of our hopes and prayers:
For example:
“Lord Jesus
Christ, by your own 3 days in the tomb, you
hallowed (you blessed) the graves of all who believe in you and so made the
grave a sign of hope that promises resurrection
even as it claims our mortal bodies.
Grant that our brother, may sleep here in peace until
you awaken him her to glory,
Grant that our sister, may sleep here in peace until
you awaken her to glory,
for you are the resurrection and the life.
Then they will see
you face to face and in your light will see light and know the splendour of
God, for you live and reign for ever and ever”
[__10__] Reflecting on these words is not only about
MORTALITY, but also about REALITY.
There
is a business-management wisdom “mantra” that is not religious per se, but has
a connection to our journey.
Stephen
Covey wrote/declared that an important habit to cultivate is to “begin with the
end in mind”
This
applies not just to a negotiation or the pursuit of wealth.
It
also applies to our view of death.
[__11__] Of course, we might prefer to think of death.
Death is the enemy.
And,
we might prefer to keep the enemy at bay with all sorts of comforts and
conveniences and distractions.
Naturally,
we seek self-preservation. But, reflecting on death is not self-destructive. It
is self-instructive.
But,
it can be difficult.
Lent
and the 40 days of Lent introduce this, in case you did not know that’s why the
dust is placed on your forehead and mine:
“Remember thou art dust and to dust thou will return.”
Then,
Ash Wednesday and Lent introduces fasting and abstinence, perhaps the
discomfort of either or both. Real
sacrifice and hunger are daunting. They remind us of our mortality. Thus, they
are called mortification.
But
these Lenten practices – which are not really confined to these 40 days – help
us to keep the end of our lives in mind.
[__12__] I pray
that this Novena and our Lent will remind us of our need to pray for own
salvation and to pray for those who have died, to pray for the souls in
Purgatory, to pray for those may have been forgotten or unknown, those who died
suddenly.
It
does not matter how long ago someone died. Pray for him or her now. In God
there is no timetable. Your prayers are relevant now. If they deceased
person/soul is not in need of your prayers – say the person is already in
heaven – God will apply your prayers to someone in need.
[__13__] St.
Joseph is the patron of the dying because it is the Church’s Tradition that he
ended his days, dying at home in Nazareth in the presence of Jesus and Mary.
Of
Jesus, of course, we learn very little of his life and words. And, post-mortem,
there is no obituary. But that does not mean there is nothing to say.
Sometimes,
I dare say, the obituary for people we know cannot really communicate the
essence of a person of what the person was really like.
From
1994 to 2009, there was a reporter at an Atlanta newspaper who became famous
for her effective writing and ability to capture the essence of a person in
obituary. Her name was Kay Powell. She had a motto on her desk, anticipating
the mysterious nature of her work, proclaiming:
“God is my assignment editor”
[__14__] God is
also your assignment editor and my assignment editor, inviting us – before
write anything or produce anything- to read the story of our lives in light of
Jesus’s Passion, Death and Resurrection.
“For everything there is a season, and a time
for every matter under heaven: a time to be born, and a time to die…” (Ecclesiastes 3:1-2a)
As Jesus said to
Martha after Lazarus’ death and burial:
“Everyone who lives and believes in me shall never
die. Do you believe this?” (John 11:24)
Martha
was invited, as we all are, to begin with the end in mind.
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