Sunday, November 3, 2024

Intersections. Equality. Charity (2024-11-03, 31st Sunday)

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 Homily – Nov 3, 2024  /  31st Sunday (Year B)  ● Deuteronomy 6:2-6 ●   Psalm 18 ● Hebrews 7:23-28 ●  + Mark 12:28b-34 

[__01__]    The Gospel of Mark offers us the familiar but eternal wisdom of the Holy Trinity through the Commandments that unify around God’s love for us and our love for God and our neighbors in return.  I’d like to talk about the Commandments marking a crossroads, intersection, and decision point in our lives. As an example …

 

[__01__]    Recently, I was standing outside the house of my sister and brother-in-law, the house where they are mother and father to 3 children, the youngest of whom is 7 years old and named Henry.

          Henry rides a scooter.

          And, the scooter riding is often taking place in front of their house where the road reaching a point on a path where the road splits into two separate directions, forcing you to choose which way to go.  Young Henry was riding his scooter on the road when he noticed a piece of discarded plastic cutlery on the ground and he shouted to me saying, “there’s a fork in the road.” Perhaps he expected me to pick it up. He had places to go on his scooter. I picked it up and then said, “Hey, Henry, this is amazing what you noticed lying on the ground.”

          He did not know where I was going with this.

          I asked him “Henry, do you know what these 2 separate streets going out like this are called?”

          He said, “an intersection [question mark] ?”.

          “Well, yes, this is an intersection, but this is also called a fork in the road because of how the 2 streets appear if you were to view them from up above, like from a helicopter.”

          A few minutes later, his mother appeared and  Henry explained, “Mom, we found a fork in the road and this is fork in the road because if you went up high and looked down you would see it looks like a fork.”  He was enthusiastic to learn about a fork in the road and I was glad to share it with him.

        

 [__02__]   Children, in these instances and in their innocence, have ways of impressing us with their awareness, intelligence and interpretations.

          A child may surpass expectations in this way.

 

[__03_]    The Gospel this Sunday demonstrates an example of an intersection and crossroads.

          Jesus encounters a scribe who engages him in conversation about the Commandments and their basis.

          The encounter stands out because Jesus and the scribe appear on equal footing intellectually and spiritually. They see eye to eye.

          They demonstrate love and trust to each other.

[__04_]        This is a scribe who has not been in Jesus’ inner circle of disciples, but gets the message better than Jesus’ “regular” and close followers.

          For example, Jesus’ own disciples are known to argue with pride among themselves as to who is # 1, who is the greatest, who has more “likes”.

          Jesus asks for their commitment, and sadly they give him their competitiveness.

          Have we not done the same ourselves to prove ourselves better in our own eyes or in the eyes of others?

          Jesus wants them to know and us to know His Wisdom - that true greatness is based on our willingness and ability to love and this summarized in what is known as the greatest commandment in Gospel today:

          “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart,  with all your soul,

with all your mind, and with all your strength. You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”

 

[__05_]        Thomas Merton, a Catholic contemplative and writer, observed this about the definition of true love and charity and how our love is truly made perfect.

          That is, our love is not perfected or upgraded based on emotion or passion or gift-giving.

          See “No Man Is an Island, Sentences on Hope, p. 170”

          Charity, Merton writes, in order to be perfect needs an equal [an equal partner].

          The lover is not content to love others as inferiors or subordinates but rather raises them to his own level.  A lover wants to share everything with his or her beloved.

          Also, when we love someone we desire the perfection of the other person, not just perfection in ourselves but in their goodness, virtue and well-being.  St. Thomas Aquinas tells us that love is simply willing the good of another for the sake of that other person, not ourselves.

          This is also the motive in coming to church as friends and family that we are seeking heavenly perfection together.  And Jesus offers us Himself out of love at each and every Mass in the Eucharist as we offer ourselves and our gifts to Him.  When we receive Him in the Blessed Sacrament worthily, we can know experience His love, a love that softens and transforms our hearts and even our relationships if we let Him.

        

[__06_]        When I realized that young Henry could understand both “intersection” and “fork in the road”, I was reminded that he may be shorter in stature but equal in status and value.  We need to understand that each Mass, indeed each day, places us at that fork in the road in today’s Gospel. 

            

[__07_]       Jesus’ message about love and equality embedded in the greatest commandment is direct but not always clear in the circumstances of our lives:

          To love your neighbor as you love yourself.

          Sometimes, I find this being an interpreted as “take care of others and don’t forget to take care of yourself.”

          But that modern holistic perspective is not the commandment. Rather, it means that we are called to follow God’s way to love others as much as we love and care about ourselves.

          I care about my own health, well being, happiness, recognition, very much. Do I apply the same level of focus to others? Do you?

          If we do this, I believe that we will naturally and intentionally follow the commandments:

 

è Honor thy father and thy mother, because rather than finding fault with our parents (which we can easily do), we are called to recognize them as our equals

è If you are an adult child taking care of a parent or family member, you might be tempted to regard them as inferior. Your sick, infirm, elderly loved one is your equal.

è The same is true for parents welcoming children – the child is your equal. The unborn child is also your equal.

Love is perfected by recognizing the dignity and equality of other people, for equality can only be understood properly in relation to one’s God-given dignity.

 

And, this Christian ideal of equality helps us to follow all the commandments, thou shalt not steal, commit adultery, bear false witness, kill or endanger innocent lives…

 The Christian life is all about helping each other as equals to heaven and meeting each other at the intersections of life that we experience.

Despite our differences – politically, culturally, socially – we are all joint heirs – loved by God and inheritors of his grace.   By seeking his wisdom and help to love each other according this equality of status, we are not far from the kingdom of God.    [__end__]   

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