Sunday, September 8, 2024

Listening (2024-09-08, Sunday - 23)

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 Homily – Sept 8, 2024  23rd Sunday (Year B)   Isaiah 35:4-7a ●  Psalm 146 ●

● James 2:1-5 ● + Mark 7:31-37 ●

 Title: Listening

[__01__]     Personal Encounter with Grace     There was a miraculous healing in  this Gospel (Mark 7:31-37). Jesus encountered a man unable to hear or speak, both deaf and mute. However, while momentous, this miracle wasn’t performed in front of a large crowd, but in a private, intimate encounter between Jesus and the man. This intimacy teaches us something profound about the nature of God’s grace: it’s personal. While God’s grace is proclaimed in large gatherings in churches, on sound systems, through YouTube or TV or radio, it is also experienced deeply in personal moments.

We gather for Mass on Saturdays and Sundays, and this communal worship is vital. It is where we turn ourselves toward God and renew our commitment to follow Christ. But the experience of God’s word and grace isn’t confined to the pews or limited to the time we spend at Mass. Being at Sunday morning Mass is an essential part of our faith journey, but it is only the beginning. A “weekday” and every day conversion – for you and me - continues in your kitchen youir garage, your car, your work, your school, your home.

When we come to Mass, we don’t just come for ourselves. We come to pray for others as well—for those sitting beside us, for those we don’t even know. The Church and the Mass are communal experiences, where we collectively listen to God’s word and lift our prayers for one another. This reminds us that we are part of the Body of Christ, interconnected and interdependent.

 


 

[__02__]    Hearing the Message Clearly

Even in this communal setting, with microphones and speakers, it is possible to miss things. We may not always hear the full message of the Gospel.

Distractions come, and you or I may not be fully present, tuned in. Have you ever found yourself hearing only what you want to hear, filtering out the rest? I know I have. It’s something to be mindful of, when it comes to listening to God’s word.

 

[__03__]    Listening as a Virtue

St. James gives us guidance on this matter in his letter: “Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger” (James 1:19). Listening is a skill that requires effort and attention, but it’s also a virtue that helps us grow in our relationship with God and with others.

 

[__04__] Moments of Missed Connections     In today’s Gospel, Jesus teaches us the importance of listening. But have you ever experienced a moment where you only caught part of a conversation or didn’t get the full story? Maybe you were late to a meeting, or only half-listening to a discussion or standing too far away.

Does this “distance” or “disconnect” make you unsure of what to do next? This can happen in our spiritual lives too. We might feel like we’ve missed something important, unsure of what God is trying to say to us. But in those moments, we can always turn to God, asking for clarity, guidance, and help in understanding.

We also need witnesses – guides – such as our parents, friends, siblings -  who can remind us of the Gospel in real practical ways.

We live in a noisy world, filled with distractions that make it difficult to hear God’s voice. But God is always speaking to us, always present, always ready to help us hear His word more clearly. And I am here, in this church, to help you with that. My role isn’t just to share my opinion about God’s word, but to help you truly hear it and connect with the message God has for you personally.

 

[__05__]    Example

Let me share an example. Recently, I was reminded that sometimes, even when I miss something initially, I may get another opportunity to hear it, to understand it more fully.

This past Saturday, I attended a funeral for a family member named Claudia. At the Mass, Claudia’s children gave a eulogy, sharing lovely memories and stories about their mother.

However, from where I was sitting in the church, I could comprehend only half of the words and sentences. I was disappointed that I couldn’t share in the moment, couldn’t fully participate in the laughter and the touching remembrances. I was actively myself smiling and pretending to hear and laugh at what was being said, but in reality, I had missed my chance to truly hear it all.

After the funeral, we were standing on the sidewalk outside the church – waiting to drive to the cemetery - when something fortunate happened. I riding in the car with Claudia’s husband, John, and their son. From the back seat, I mentioned to John that I had heard a few tid-bits of a story in church – in the eulogy - about something about Claudia and a minivan, but I couldn’t get the full details. John, eager to talk, began to fill me in.

He told me that Claudia believed in doing an act of kindness every day of her life. If she saw someone in need, she would help, even if it was someone unknown to her and he gave examples. In this regard, John said, he and Claudia were opposites. While he also wanted to help people, he didn’t do so in the same outgoing, forward-thinking way that Claudia did and for COMPLETE STRANGERS.

John then shared the story of the minivan which was several years old.  Rather than trading it in, the decided to advertise it in the newspaper and get some money to buy their next car.  A potential buyer called and rang the doorbell.

Claudia not only met the buyer  but learned her story, learned about her and also learned how much she really liked the van, but also that she was a single parent and could not really afford it

A few days later, John noticed the minivan was gone and asked Claudia how much they had sold it for. She revealed that she hadn’t sold it at all; she had given it away to the woman and her family

This story wasn’t widely known among their family and friends until after Claudia’s death, but it was part of the eulogy … part of what I could not hear on the first try.

But there I was, hearing it directly from John, hearing it in a way that no one else in the church had, and also realized he was the one really challenged by this action and transaction.

Missing something, I was given another chance to hear it—more clearly and directly than I could have imagined from the one who had really experienced it.

 

[__06__]   Learning to Listen and Sacrifice

We are called to hear God’s word and recognize that sometimes, Jesus does things differently from how we might do them and speaks from his experience to our own. He already planned to give up His life for us when we would likely try to save our own. But through love, whether in family, marriage, or friendship, do we not also learn the value of planning to lay down our lives for one another?

This may mean doing the opposite of our own preference.

This is the message of next Sunday’s Gospel (Mark 8:27-35) when Peter tries to reverse Jesus’ prediction of His passion and death. Peter still has much to learn about what it means to sacrifice himself and unite with Jesus’ mission.

Jesus also takes Peter aside 1-on-1 not just in this instance but several other times!

It may take us more than once, more than 7 or 77 times, to hear God’s message clearly in our minds and hearts. But God is always speaking, always giving us another chance to listen and understand. [end]

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