Sunday, May 5, 2024

Small Groups of Friends (2024-05-05, 6th Sunday Easter)

__ Click Here for Audio of Homily ___ 

__ Click Here for Video of Mass __ 

Homily, 6th Sunday Easter, 2024-05-05 (year B)

●●Acts 10:25-26, 34-35, 44-48 ● ●Psalm ● ●1 John 4:7-10 ● ●+John 15:9-17 ● ●

 [_01__]    It might have been expected, it might have been expected from our Savior's return after Easter, and on the days thereafter that he would have shown himself to great numbers of people, great crowds of people all at once.

(John Henry Newman, “Witnesses of the Resurrection”, Parochial and Plain Sermons Book I, Sermon 22,  p. 181)

This statement about how we might how Jesus Christ might get maximum publicity is from a sermon called “witnesses to the resurrection” by John Henry Newman. And Newman continues, why did not Jesus show himself to all the people? Why did he only choose numbers of person to give testimony, to be his witnesses? [not to “businesses”… witnesses].

He says, because this is the most effective means of publicity. To start with small groups,

          Jesus invites you and me to follow him and we are still today the witnesses to His resurrection. He still appears to us, speaks to us, not via a computer screen, but via our consciences. We are called to prayer and listening and coming to church on Sundays in order to practice our faith and follow Him and to keep going.

          Do you ever think that your prayer and fasting and coming to church and your moral and religious choices do not matter don't matter to very many people,? Sometimes, I am tempted by this thought.

I need reminders that my faith and my witness matters. And you also need these reminders. I'm not saying I'm going to give you the reminder, I'm saying the reminders come in our own lives by our own experience. And I'd like to share with you my own experience. Some from long ago, one very recently.  

[__02__in the beginning,    

Long before it was ordained a priest, I was a college student. And we had the opportunity to go to Catholic mass in our college chapel on a Saturday afternoon. One of my classmates, Victor, would usually go to church as well. He is one of my closest and oldest friends.

          During the time we were together, I also met his father and family many times and his father became a friend and father figure to me.

          So, we had a nice connection, but we were not completely in synch time-wise. Victor was so intensely focused on his studies scientific studies, pre med studies. He is a physician, a doctor now. He actually asked me to come get him so that he would take a break and go to the chapel. He said I won't remember to take a break and go. Please come and get me.

          It was an example that my practice of the Catholic faith mattered to a friend.  Faith and testimony starts in small groups.

 

[_03__] A few years after college, and again, well, before I was ordained a priest, I heard the tragic news that Victor’s father had a terrible fall and was paralyzed. Though they did not live in NJ, the accident happened in NJ and Victor’s father ended up at Kessler Rehabilitation hospital in West Orange for some time.

          If I experienced – and I did experience – any inspiration to visit him -- I pushed it away. I did not want to see his father suffering. I was being very immature and selfish. Yet, I also imagined that he would have been glad to see me. I regret never visiting him. He died a few years later.

          But in a positive way, the regret became part of my own meditations, conversion and consideration of the priesthood and my understanding how important it is to live Jesus’ words: “I was sick and you visited me”. Compassion also starts in small groups and one-on-one!

          So, now I am not perfect, but I understand better.  And, God – having a sense of humor – has assigned me to Our Lady of Lourdes parish near Kessler Rehabilitation - in West Orange, twice !

 

[_04__]       These days, it is common for priests of this area to visit, bring Holy Communion, pray and anoint a person who might be staying and recovering at Kessler in West Orange. I have done this many times.

 

[_05__]       This past Friday, around 4:30 in the afternoon, I visited a man at Kessler in West Orange, to pray with him and bring him Holy Communion.

          As I made my way there, I felt a bit unprepared because I was running out of time and feared I might not have enough time or might not be able to see him at all.

          Fortunately, it all worked out. The timing was actually perfect and I am so glad I met him.

          More often than not, do we not need the Holy Spirit to set the agenda and timeline?

          This past Friday, this man was a witness to me of faith and perseverance.

I walked into his hospital room and he was immediately joyful and articulate, thankful I was there. And he told me about his ongoing extended recovery and life. He has been at Kessler repeatedly over the years. Over the past 20 years. 20 years ago, he barely survived a serious accident, which leaves him with headaches, great difficulty walking, memory loss.

He has a traumatic brain injury. He brought me joy due to his perspective, in great difficulty. He told me how he volunteers to help others with severe head and brain injuries. He was the victim of a collision with a dangerous car and driver while crossing the street as a pedestrian. The accident was not his fault. It should never have happened. He did not dwell on that fact. I asked him if anyone else was hurt or injured in the accident. He told me, “No, no one else was hurt. Because I pushed my wife and my kids out of the way.”  That's joy, amid suffering.

 

[__06__]  We receive we receive Communion at this mass and forgiveness through Jesus Christ because He laid down His life for us. And laid down for you his life for you, Camila, on your 1st Holy Communion day and for each of us at our next Holy Communion and at every holy communion. And we pray that he will lay down his life at our final Holy Communion that we will be united with Him forever in Heaven in friendship.

          Jesus gives us his life to call and pull us out of the way of evil, sin, and death.

 

[__07__]  To whom does the practice of your faith and my faith matter?

          We might find it only matters to one person or to one person at a time.

          That’s enough of a headcount!

          It matters that you, Camila, and your family practice your faith and that your classmates who will receive Holy Communion next week practice your faith, that you come to church on Sundays.

          You are personal witness to Jesus Christ’s Resurrection so that the Good News can go out to your family, friends, classmates, teammates, neighborhood, front yard and back yard.

          This brings glory to God.

And this brings us into connection and friendship with our Savior and brother who said,

I no longer call you slaves, because a slave does not know what his master is. I have called you friends because I have told you everything I have heard from my father. It was not you who chose me but I who chose you and appointed you to go and bear fruit that will remain so that whatever you ask the Father in my name, he may give you this I command you love one another” (John 15:15-17)  [__end__]   

No comments:

Post a Comment